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This Blog has Moved! [ANN]

50 posts and 70 comments later, this blog has permanently moved to NotSoOutstanding.blogspot.com. The reasons why I did this are:

- URL: I realized that a-glorious-gift was not easy to remember. This one's better.

- I ain't so outstanding: Exactly. I want my posts to be received as coming from someone average, someone just wishing to exhibit their thoughts and not give out any gyan.

- Change: Exactly again. I needed a new look, a new identity, and here it is!

All the old posts will be here and on the new blog. I couldn't move the IntenseDebate comments, which is why I'm saving the posts here too. From now on, all new posts will go directly to NSO (:D).
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P.S. Some issues still have to be worked on. Pardon me if you have to face any ugliness over at NotSoOutstanding.blogspot.com.

My Favourite Wallpaper

This picture wins the award for being my cell phone wallpaper for the longest period of time. (Others never stay more than a few days.)
A couple of weeks back I changed it, not because I was as usual bored, but because of the feeling it's not very "me" to stick to the same image for so long... But within a day I was back to this one. It's so beautifully intriguing that I never get tired of looking at it—in fact I find myself staring at this picture for minutes at a stretch and admiring the beauty.

Never tried finding out whether it's real; don't remember where I downloaded it... Who cares. It's about the beauty. The simplicity. Which this has in abundance.

Power Blogging

...requires:
 
1. Regular commenting on other blogs and saying something well beyond "Great post!".

2. Regular posting. Duh!

3. Regular guest posting—on your blog by others and by you on other people's blogs.

...as I've learnt... and not yet implemented.

Quick Question

How good an idea is it to have one blog with posts like thesethese and these? Just curious.

Muse Quiz (Diwaan-i-aam)

This Thursday (9/9) I conducted a quiz to introduce Muse, a the society for readers, writers and lovers of words. The quiz was conducted as part of the event "Diwaan-i-aam", an event (which rocked) intended to showcase the fun activities of the Literary Society, in the open.

The quiz questions are here and here. Check them outthey're fun!

Nostalgia—OB Presentation

Back in the day we had a course called Organisational Behaviour/Organizational Behavior. (A course that has been life-altering. :))
Going through my Google Docs, I found a document that was the text of my presentation as part of the tutorial for the course. It was about a fifteen-minute speech on "Experiment". The starting idea comes from one of the best books ever: A Short History of Nearly Everything by Bill Bryson. I also read quite a few blog posts from around the blogosphere for inspiration; thanks to all those writers.
Let's see if you think it's an interesting read.


P.S. "ICE Age" is the term our tutorial teacher used for the current times of Information, Communication and Entertainment.

Brain Map Sharing (Random Thoughts 2)

All right; time for another post of that kind. Randomer this time, I guess.



- Jujus café, for now, is just the kind of place that will be my regular hangout. Finally a place that seems to welcome people who are okay with being alone sometimes. ;) For now even the crowd that's there (as I've noticed in my two days in a row) isn't the usual staring kind. How cool is that!
It's just the perfect place for thinking over a cup of coffee, or brainstorming, which was very successful today.

- I couldn't get the official tweet button to work for me. Keeps pointing to the blog rather than the post. And used from within Reader, points to reader.google.com. Not fair. I know, of course, the fault is mine.

- Typing is so much fun! So is Twitter.

- I just suggested "geek dudette" as a sort of title for myself. Makes me laugh somehow. And here's THE link again. It'll tell you I'm not a nerd, but a geek; the dudette part is for you to decide.

- I'm reading The Tipping Point these days. Next up are more bestsellers in the same category. The concept is so brilliant. Might want to study something on these lines later in life.

- Reminds me of the Millennium Trilogy. Three of the best books I've read lately. I hope the English movies are good. They'd better be.

- I want to read Chelsea Handler as well. Probably after I'm done with economics. And I want to read everything by Nora Roberts as well. Birthright was my latest favourite before I read Stieg Larsson/Reg Keeland. Gosh, the world needs more libraries. Not to forget... The Glamour of Grammar.

RSS Zen ;)

Two summers ago, I had started actively following a few tech blogs, through which I learnt about Google Reader. And soon, was in an infinite loop of discovering new blogs and subscribing to them. For months I was on what felt like a learning high, particularly in terms of free software, web apps and some tech news. With time my subscription list began to grow to include personal blogs and blogs about productivity, happiness, simplicity, science, news, apples, oranges and lemons. And obviously, it didn't take time for the process to become counter-productive and give me mini-panic attacks to see upwards of 500 unread items every day.
So, now finally I have almost achieved RSS zen by cutting down the list. Here's what I did:

1. Reduce the number of tech blogs on my list

I had found out about most tech blogs on my list via guest/shared posts on Lifehacker and MakeUseOf and had started following them. Soon, I was mostly just getting the same information from multiple sources. Unproductive. I traced the route back and have now unsubscribed from most tech blogs but these two and a few other favourites.

2. Unsubscribe from blogs that would look good on a list, but weren't getting read

Having realized that some of the blogs on my list weren't actually getting read, I unsubscribed. The names are stuck in my memory well enough to guarantee an occasional visit to the web log itself.

3. Refer to stats for starred items

I use starred items mostly to bookmark posts that I will keep wanting to come back to. Looking at the blogs with the least starred items gave me a good idea of which ones I don't want to follow.

4. Split followed blogs across platforms

Unbelievably for me, I now follow mental_floss only on Twitter. Likewise, TED.com and IBNLive are only on my Facebook pages list. This actually helps, and makes reading more interesting because now I don't have to read all my posts with the same UI.

5. Keep Reader for "forgettable" blogs
I might miss a tweet or Facebook update, but it's hard to just not notice an unread item in Reader, so I've made sure that smaller or low-frequency blogs stay on.
Reader's unread posts counts had become a scary number. With # 4 and 5, that number's smaller, without a change in the amount of information I'm fed.

I have now effectively come down to a few tens of posts everyday, which can be easily navigated through in under an hour, and many more posts get actually read now. :)

(This post was typed in Bend, a text editor worth at least a test drive. For now I'm keeping it for concurrent use with Q10.)

Open to New Themes

Hola, people! Just wanted y'all to know that I'd be happy to receive suggestions for a new theme for both this blog and this blog. No plans to change the themes right now, but still open to new and fresh ideas.

Learning Comes Unexpectedly

Love Happens makes me think of learning coming unexpectedly. I started thinking of this during the last post, but the idea was larger than what would qualify as random. For those of you who don't know, this movie (And no, I'm not advertising.) has some great lessons. The name had made me imagine it as a chick-flick. Maybe it is, but it's more of a learning experience—like a manual for a happier life. Of course there are tons of those, but the difference lies in how the same ideologies are presented. And my web of thoughts forces me to say that that's the precise reason I like "Shivani Didi's" presentation of ideas that aren't necessarily her own. (Another blog post due for weeks now.)
Gosh... I have too much of a hangover from a post that intentionally shows bad writing. Bear with me as I try to correct that. I'll cut through the irrelevant parts and skip to the original point:
We never know what could be a source of knowledge and wisdom for us. Train your brain and senses to always be open to fresh ideas, a new perspective, a wild breakthrough. Be willing to receive... to accept... But of course, all in a positive sense. Mental filters have to be the most active part of the brain—always.
And now I don't know where to go with writing about this idea, so I guess I'll just leave it here. The movie's asking for more attention now too. I'm glad.

P.S. Words learnt from the movie: quidnunc, poppysmic, sesquipedalianist. :)

Random Thoughts 1

- This is a blog post writing which I have no agenda—no idea what it's going to be about. I'm watching Love Happens simultaneously. It's a bad habit of mine: any movies I watch outside a cinema hall, never get singular attention. In fact mostly I have a plan of what I intend to do while I watch the movie. (During the last one I made a personal dictionary of roots, prefixes and suffixes.) Actually, is it a bad habit after all? I really don't know, and in fact prefer not to judge now.

- It just struck me that it doesn't not make sense to have a random post without planning. I've seen this on another blog actually—a "Random Thoughts" post. Guess I can give that a try too. Should work, considering I keep having weird thoughts that might appreciate a wider audience. By the way, how do I define a blog post that "works"? Hmm...

- Which reminds me that I have to cut down on the number of blogs I follow, because it's becoming an information overload. Blog post on that soon, when I'm about done, perhaps.

- This is a strange feeling... The only time I write like this is for my personal diary, and that too only sometimes, when I feel unable to do a writing exercise.

- I'm actually rolling my eyes at the screen right now.

- Very hard to fight the pressing urge to go back and edit what I've been typing. I won't; I won't; I WON'T. (Is that usage of the semicolon correct? Either way, is it the best way to punctuate that sentence?)

- Now that I've made it this embarrassing, perhaps I'll just throw this away and never publish it. But then again, I will. People have to stretch out and reach out of the comfortable cocoon of the familiar. It's a part of growing.

- Coffee and chocolate. Two great foods that are even better with a tinge of bitterness—only literally bitter, taste-wise. Dark chocolate; 70% is the industry standard? Low-sugar, high-caffeine coffee. Yum. :)

No, I Don't Miss Wi-fi

For almost two years now, I've been used to living near a laptop, connected to the internet till eternity, with at least a couple of browser windows and some apps dancing around my screen when I press Win + Tab. (Yes, I'm a Windows person. Sigh)
And now suddenly, sitting in a cutely gorgeous house in Chandigarh, having been here for a month and intending to bug Uncle and Auntie for another half (at most), I'm actually relieved that my life is so offline.
I use the internet a few days a week for a few minutes. Well, not really my kinda internet—just blogger, google reader (only to mark all items as read), gmail and a few seconds on facebook.* And you know what? I was seriously, honestly satisfied with that. Now it is purely by choice that I almost avoid going online. Some of you who know me well might be giggling right now, mostly in disbelief. The others would think this is natural, or crazy or anything in between. Whatever it is, I'm totally serious here. There's suddenly so much more time. I still cling to this laptop a lot, but end up doing lots of offline stuff, invariably very productive or happiness-generating activities. I've been reading and writing a lot more than usual lately, and catching up with some movies.
And yes, I am missing out on truckloads of things that I enjoy doing, but those can wait. It's good to be relatively disconnected at times. Wonder if I can ever survive without a cell phone. (Now you must be laughing your heads off. :P)

*Although on my weekends home, it's hard to not go back to the same old routine.

Popcorn Kernels

I like popcorn kernels. Most people think it's time to toss the popcorn bag when the fluffy bits are gone; I think that's when the fun part begins. I love the challenge of having to exercise your teeth hard to extract taste from those hard grains.
Everyday inspiration! :D

Why I Won't Put Ads on my Blogs

I write because I enjoy the writing part of it. And the typing part as well.
The free earnings would be great, but I wouldn't want to give up the cleanliness of my blogs, sustained by effort and passion, for a few dollars. These blogs started as attempts to let my voice reach peoplethis simple, honest intention deserves to remain pristine.
And the other thing is that with my writing right now, I don't intend to rake in any moolah; the idea to improve enough before I feel ready to launch my writing into the commercial space.

My Favourite Blogs 3

So glad this one's come without much of a hiatus! (Number 1 and 2.)






My Favourite Blogs 2

All right, this post is at least a year late, so no more time-wasting here. (Link to the first post in this series.)













And finally, all the blogs at ibnlive.com, particularly Suhasini Haidar's and Sagarika Ghose's.

Things that Make Me Happy (Updatable)

In no particular order:
  • Rain
  • Babies
  • Wet grass
  • Dew drops
  • Good food
  • Cheese
  • Coffee
  • Flowers
  • Writing/blogging
  • Typing
  • Cameras
  • thxthxthx.com :)
  • Shades of purple
  • Being so busy with something, you involuntarily forget about lower-order needs
  • Long phone conversations
  • Smiling
  • RAOKs (directed from or to me)
  • Good stationery
  • Clean desktops—real and virtual

An Open Letter to Whoever Can Change the Scenario Described

Sir/Madam

I have to clarify right at the outset that, no matter what people might say, I love life at Thapar. Everything about the place—the negatives totally included—make life so much fun and satisfying, and I'm probably blessed with the best people around too.
But anyway, frequently I think of how India's fourth best private engineering college fails to live up to its name in some ways. Rather than using engineering in a way that reflects the education being imparted, the campus is just an ordinarily equipped place. Here is a reality-check:

- We're churning out an exponentially rising number of Computer Science engineers every year, yet there is no official system (that is followed as well) to distribute notes online, and offer video-taped lectures. Even the attendance and testing systems have remained the same over the years while technology grows as warp speed.
The idea is to enhance communication among students and teachers (WebKiosk 2.0), an example of which is Mr. Apurva Bakshi's IPR blog: avbakshi.blogspot.com.
- Electronics and Electrical engineers have not been able to design greener technologies to mow lawns, water plants, power the campus... Not only are we yet to bring out a breakthrough in the existing technologies, despite the generous revenues, even already-available technologies are yet to be put to productive use.
- Despite the high desirability of Civil engineering courses, the real thinktanks have been rather uncivil in not having bettered the walkways, which are sure to ruin a good pair of shoes with the oodles of quicksand during the rainy days.
- Most courses are based on the theoretical aspect of things, and the practical applications only come as a footnote. Unless we realize the manifestations of its concepts, how are we expected to find interest in the course? And what real innovation are we bringing learning exactly what the past generations of engineers have been studying?
- The labs are a wonderful way to waste/utilize time trying to prove the proven. The curriculum overall, and the labs in particular, have no flexibility, and that goes directly against the very idea of engineering.
The list has more than can be recounted, but the general idea is to inject more engineering into a campus like ours.

On the shiny side, however, some of the ongoing research is highly awe-inspiring. The potato-tomato hybrid, and the zapping cars of the mechanical engineers of course do us all proud. Let's try swinging the scales in favour of the delicious side of engineering.

Truly
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Life Lessons from a Theatre Director

If I start it, the story will be use up a million words, so I'll directly skip to the point(s):

Make it fun
Nobody enjoys injecting effort into something that they don't relish. I'd be sorry for you if you were one of the people who are stuck doing something they inherently don't enjoy, but the point is that even in activities we revel in, light moments are always welcome. Create an atmosphere around that is light, humorous and fun.

Acknowledge your role as the team leader...
and make sure that you always give out positive vibes and stay optimistic. Don't let your negative thoughts rub off on the team and get you all down.

Welcome criticism, but know where to draw the line
Be open to ideas from people who might not be authorized or asked to help. Genuinely consider ideas that may turn out to be for the greater good. Nevertheless, know that you'll have to put your foot down at some point and take decisions that not everyone will appreciate. The director may be "only just a director" but in the end it is her call.

You're never too prepared
No matter how far the big day seems, you never have too much time to prepare. Stay focused, do not be delinquent, and work hard.

Trust spontaneity
Preparation sometimes comes in the way of excellence. True, you can never be too prepared, but the line has to drawn somewhere. Put in a sincere effort; and leave the rest to the D-day eustress.

You'll have to surrender control at some point
No matter what, your duty will be over at some stage, where you have to have faith, trust your cast and crew, and God, and hope everything works out well. And guess what--if you've put in an honest effort, it will! Loosen up!

Look for the positives
During the performance, keep track of all the positives. (The goof-ups won't need conscious tracking. :P) And once it's over, congratulate yourself and your team on the good work. When you start working on the next performance, be sure to use the feedback constructively.

Thank you, Lovneet, for being the in/direct source of wisdom.

Reminder: Subscribe to the TCB feed!

Hello, beautiful people!

This is just a reminder that for your convenience and mine, I'll be delivering the TCB newsletter to you via a different channel now. Nothing will change; all you have to do is subscribe to the feed by visiting thecreativ3bee.blogspot.com. And I measured that the process takes under a minute on an average.
Here are two screenshots to walk you through the process, just in case (Click to enlarge):




Thanks! See you around. :)

TCB Blog

Guys, what do you think of a blog for TCB, with RSS feed?
As I'm getting more subscribers, I have to forward them the emails, which is very inconvenient. A link, however would be simply amazing. I intend to keep the email newsletter going for a few more times, but ultimately switch over completely to the blog.

Any thoughts on this?

EDIT: The blog is now fully ready and updated, and # 7 onwards, the emails will be discontinued. Head over to thecreativ3bee.blogspot.com to subscribe to the feed via RSS/email.

Flabby Happy meets Skinny Smily

Here's a piece I wrote on the redundancy of perfection, primarily in body shape:


"Aim at perfection in everything, though in most things it is unattainable. However, they who aim at it, and persevere, will come much nearer to it than those whose laziness and despondency make them give it up as unattainable."
Lord Chesterfield must have been a wise man; who else could have given humanity a never-ending goal to strive for?
But maybe, just maybe, he didn't quite get it right. Why should we aim to hit perfection, knowing fully well that it is as unreal as mathematical infinity, or rather iota? Sure, it is a way of constantly reinventing yourself; sure it ensures you don't get complacent; definitely, it helps you reach zeniths of success you might never have acknowledged the possibility of... But there is a catch. A rather big one, actually. Of course, as opposed to "laziness", perfection is... let's just say a perfect option. But between the black and the white, there are quite a few rich shades of grey. After all, grey is the new black!

The pursuit of perfection carries around a transparent cloak of unrealness. While we deliberate, discuss, or debate, the cloak remains invisible. But when it comes to being in the real world, things change.
How many of us genuinely don't want a bikini-babe/ramp-hunk body? Yet how many of the rest have one? I could go on with the statistics now, but what are we getting to? Are we robo sapiens, expectedly crafted to perfection, all manufactured and quality-checked to ensure size-zeroes or eight-packs? In case anyone's waiting for an answer, go figure.

We frequently notice the flabby using the evergreen khaate-peete-khaandaan-ke-log as an argument-stopper. The ones far on the other side of the spectrum of course are assumed to be happy and satisfied.
This is where we get carried away into the wrong territory. Whoever started the idea of happiness coming from having things? True happiness and satisfaction are not outside-in phenomena. They're exactly 180 degrees away from that—inside-out. I'm happier with my few-extra-pounds than my next-door neighbour with enviably chiselled curves. And the reason is simply that body shape (or salary, or car brand, for that matter) is not the right yardstick to measure happiness.

It's actually interesting to wonder how the thought of desirability and body fat being inversely proportional originated... But who cares? Now is the time to question it! Don't get me wrong here; I'm not defending couch-potato behaviour or condoning sedentary lifestyles, and the bunch of grapes in my palm is perfectly sweet. I'm simply hoping to shake up some closed minds. It's not merely a matter of perspective: Researchers recently combined the best features of the faces of some of the world's sexiest women, including Kiera Knightly, Angelina Jolie and Megan Fox. And no goodies for guessing that the end result was a face just above average, at best. Irrelevant example, you may say, but the point is that literature accepts that the greatest perfection is imperfection.
There you go! With a reasonable and scientific proof against the real existence of perfection, a mere mortal doesn't even need to go on rambling about it.

And hence she stops.

On Relaxation

I vehemently agree with the idea that relaxation is not a waste of time but a way to recharge for another spell of peak performance. It's very important to work hard, and then give yourself a break, before you're back. Recreation is re-creation within us of the mechanism that helps us focus and work towards getting where we have to.
What I try to do when I start working (studying) again is to tell myself: "Okay, you've had your time to relax and unwind. Now it's time to get back and focus hard."

Your thoughts?

7 Photography Tips for the Beginner

1. Read the owner's manual. This one might win an award for obviousness, but it really is important. The owner's manual is an easy-to-understand way to familiarize yourself with everything your camera is capable of.

2. Do not stick with the Auto settings. This will of course require you to have read the owner's manual first. The idea is to not only know all the settings, but also use them for every picture you take. Auto of course saves time, and usually works well, but in some cases you can really see the difference if you adjust the settings first.

3. Optical zoom good. Digital zoom bad. The idea is simple. Optical zoom is what happens as a result of your camera's lens moving towards the object. And it's good. Digital zoom, however, is (umm, err, eh...) a digital thing. The badness of it lies in the fact that it leaves your picture looking grainy, and drastically reduces the quality, which becomes very obvious on a larger screen/print.

4. Keep reviewing for later. Not only does this save battery and time, it also ensures you don't delete a picture that looks bad only on a little screen, and not a bigger one, where you'll end up seeing it way more frequently.

5. Carry around your camera everywhere. With extra memory cards and battery pack/s. That's two tips rolled into one, but they're both very obvious too. Always try to be prepared for a good shot by keeping memory cards/films and battery packs plus your camera handy at all times, so you never have to miss a great shot, or make do with your cell phone's camera.
MAKE SURE you don't keep it away from yourself, though. (Lesson learnt the hard way.)

6. Transfer pictures often to your computer. Makes it easy to review, delete and edit pictures by reducing the number you have to deal with in one go, and also frees up memory on your card. And minimizes your loss in case your camera gets lost/stolen.

7. Capture from as many different angles as possible--try every new idea you can think of. This usually generates great pictures out of everyday subjects.

Bonus: Shoot in the RAW format, rather than JPEG, if your camera will let you. It might be inconvenient when you start, but really helps with post-production. I'm still learning more on this, so I recommend you look it up.

Share your own in the comments!

Winter Wonders!

As North India shivers its way through a cold wave, and some unfortunate people succumb to it, I sit here talking about the wonders of winter... Heartless? Maybe I am.
But no matter what, I'm loving the fog outside. Or maybe not exactly outside; because it's actually trying its best to come barging right into my hostel room. On the way I walked right through a thick foggy curry.
And even within the hostel, which normally carries the aura of a safe and enclosed open space, I can hardly see the breathing souls more than a few inches away! And what to say about the aurait's just... Well, fogged up!
Here are two interesting facts:
1. While most of us hardly have a directly visible square inch of skin even indoors, there are a few out on the terrace, busy on the phone. (I don't know how to react.)
2. The entire day was clouded/foggy, and the only times the sun was visible, it took everyone a moment to realize it's not the moon that got yellower and fartherIT'S THE SUN! And the weather forecast for the entire week was that it'll be sunny, with single digit positive temperatures (Celcius) and highs around 20 degrees. I can now tell why looking up the weather hasn't really caught on in India. Or maybe this is the reason the forecast doesn't come after enough research. And then again... Oh well.

Welcoming 2010

Happy new year, everyone!

It's a great feeling to welcome a new year--a representation of a new dawn, new beginning, new hope... and the rest of the clichés. I genuinely hope that 2010 brings for everyone, joy, success and satisfaction.

2009 has definitely been the best year of my life. It's been a wonderful concoction of happiness, wonderful people who brought wonderful experiences, and lessons, of course. Kind of like a few drops of a bitter drink that make you grateful for every crystal of sugar that would otherwise just sit around on the kitchen counter. (What am I saying? :-/)

Anyway the point is just that I hope we all have a great year ahead. Wishing that everyone can take baby steps towards living their best lives. :)